Wednesday, November 9, 2011

medical "professionals"...

...Inspired by Fat Heffalump's letter to medical professionals Go take a minute to read her letter. I'll wait here...

Ok. Awesome, no?

I actually commented, as it really rang true to a lot of what I have experienced..  This was my comment:


While not diabetic, I have struggled with many of the same issues you have, especially medical "professionals" who can't fathom that I'm happy at 300-ish lbs, and imply that it's my weight & (assumed) craptastic diet causing my depression, gall bladder attacks, probs getting pg, etc not the actual issues at hand. 

 And it's true. Want proof?
  • I had a nurse who was supposed to be helping me with PPD back in the spring imply that my depression was caused by my size, while I see it as I'm fat because I'm depressed - totally different, IMO... 
  • At the end of May I had my first real gall bladder attack. We went to the ER, and while taking my history, the nurse noted that I just had a baby. "oh, then it's probably gall stones. It's very common after you have a baby". When the doctor finally saw me, he blew that off, and said "you had pizza for dinner, then pizza & coffee for breakfast. you're not young anymore... its' just indigestion". and after many months, a few more attacks & an abdominal ultrasound, guess what? "Multiple mobile (gall)stones - RX gall bladder removal". Thanks arse. If you would've seen PAST my 300-lb arse, I might have had the u/s in the summer & surgery be over by now, instead of it (most likely) conflicting with work.
  • As for the problems getting pregnant, well, there was the comment made to me by the RE during our Embryo Transfer, and the lovely "I can't believe *YOU* aren't the reason you two can't get pregnant..." by a different RE early in the game. well that's supportive, no? :P OY. 
 I'm glad my GPs in the last 10yrs have been ok with my weight (as long as BP was controlled, etc), and that the nutritionist I'm seeing isn't making me journal every bite I eat, or count calories, etc. So ya, maybe some medical professionals DO get that some people who are fat are OK - OK with being fat, and just OK in general.